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It’s NOT about dating…

Filed under: Success Tips

Want to know a sure-fire way to fail with women? Ask one on a “date”-you’ll be done before you start. How do I know? Because I tested it over and over and over, and every time I went on a traditional “date,” I never saw her again.

Why does this happen? The answer is simple: every guy asks a woman on a date, and if she goes on one with you, you’re just another guy (a JAG). Women don’t want JAG’s-they want a guy who’s different, a guy who creates attraction. Dating is also a very structured, uncomfortable ritual-you dress nicely, bring her flowers, go eat at a swanky restaurant, all the while wondering if you’re going to “get some.” Then at the end of the night, you wonder if you’re going to “get a kiss.” After it’s over you call your friends, and she calls hers to evaluate the whole ordeal.

No wonder dating sucks-it’s no fun at all, and it’s set up to fail from the beginning. So, I just don’t date. I “allow” a woman to spend time with me to see how much we can enjoy each other’s company over coffee. If she asks me “is this a date?” I say, “oh no, I don’t date. This isn’t dating, this is discovery. I get to discover if I like you or not!” They always love that response because it lets them know immediately I’m different from any other guy they ever met, and the experience they have with me will be vastly different than anything they’ve ever done before. And then they start to pursue me.

So, don’t date, discover!

To discover even more amazing attraction secrets, visit here.

On with the fun…

-John Alanis

The King of Let ‘em Come to You

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